How Do You Look?

No one wants to date a dirty slob. If you are actively dating, or trying to actively date, you will want to read this:

Not every woman expects her date to wear a suit and tie. Not every man expects his date to be in a dress. Every man and woman does expect his or her date to be clean.

Sometimes, even if you are clean, you don't look clean. This is a huge turn-off for everyone. Read these simple tips to make sure you are ready for your date.

1. Make sure you put on fresh, clean clothes. The first time you meet someone, you notice how they are looking and smelling. If your clothes aren't clean, they will know. It doesn't matter if you are going to the park in your jeans and tee shirt. Make sure they are fresh and clean. Using a dryer sheet in your dryer will help your clothes smell fresher longer.

2. Make sure you shower right before your date. I don't care if you just showered this morning and you are having a lunch date. If you have just showered, you will feel better about yourself and you will have that great fresh smell.

3. Don't use too much cologne. You want your date to smell you, not everyone in a hundred block radius. If you over-do it on the cologne, you will give the impression that you are trying to cover up some type of odor. Not a good impression.

4. Fingernails! Are your nails clean? You don't have to get a manicure, although this won't hurt, but you do need to have clean, neatly trimmed nails. If you work in a dirty environment and have dirt under your nails, get rid of it. Even the dirtiest nails will come clean if soaked in dish detergent. Get a good nail brush and clean those nails up. Make sure you file them so they are smooth.

5. Teeth. If your teeth need dental care, go to the dentist. When you are talking to someone they will be looking at your mouth. If your teeth are messed up, you won't be talking to them again. If your teeth are stained or yellowed, get something to fix this. You can have your dentist brighten up your teeth but there are also many great products on the market that will do this for a fraction of the cost. Make sure your teeth are pretty before you even consider dating.

6. How does your hair look? If you need a trim, get one. Make sure your hair is clean and soft. Use a good conditioner. If you have a dandruff problem, fix it. Apple Cider Vinegar is said to be a good rinse for dandruff. The smell will go away when your hair is dry. Add a little hairspray or mousse to make sure you don't smell like a salad.

7. Dress appropriately. If you are going to a special restaurant, don't show up in shorts. If you are going to the beach, don't show up in heels. If in doubt, ask your date what he or she will be wearing. You can always pretend you need this information to identify him or her.

8. Shave. Don't go on your first date with even the slightest stubble. If your date becomes "touchy - feely", you don't want to be embarrassed by the nubs.

9. Trim your nose hairs, ear hairs, stray eyebrow hairs.